Jesus, Boundaries & the Shame Trap

There is a lot of talk about boundaries - about how they must be in place to have healthy relationships. But there's a lot of confusion around what exactly is meant by "boundary" and how it functions, and what it's purpose is. So let's talk about it. #1. Boundaries Communicate, not Isolate. Boundaries tell others … Continue reading Jesus, Boundaries & the Shame Trap

Is it ok to have boundaries with people you love?

What if setting limits hurts people that you care about? How do you know if you've put up walls of self protection that actually break relationship, or if you've set a healthy boundary that makes relationships safe? Is it really ok to have boundaries in close relationships? What does that even look like? These are … Continue reading Is it ok to have boundaries with people you love?