Is it ok to have boundaries with people you love?

What if setting limits hurts people that you care about? How do you know if you've put up walls of self protection that actually break relationship, or if you've set a healthy boundary that makes relationships safe? Is it really ok to have boundaries in close relationships? What does that even look like? These are … Continue reading Is it ok to have boundaries with people you love?

Mandatory journaling and other great ideas

Journaling should be mandatory. Like, you'll be tossed into a cell somewhere to think things over, young lady, until you write down the truth that you are deadlocked in eye contact with - write it down wether you like it or not, wether it's "reality" or not. What is reality anyway? I always think I … Continue reading Mandatory journaling and other great ideas

Hiding in caves and other stupid things we do.

And the light dawns. I mean give it enough time and the sun does eventually peek over the horizon. But man, is it ever scary before that first ray of light hits. I sat in the courtyard, the sound of children playing floated on the wind from the orphanage across the street, the dust mingling … Continue reading Hiding in caves and other stupid things we do.